Closure
I've always believed in closure. When I started my first job as a carhop at Sonic, I made sure to leave on good terms. The manager had been working there for many years and would continue to work there for many more. I saw people come and go, treating her poorly. As a teenager, I didn't know that one day a long time down the road I'd be a mom taking my son there for ice cream. But the day I did, I was relieved I had ended that job respectfully. I could tell my son how mommy worked here and not feel any guilt about how I left things. I think people are too quick to quit things that are hard or uncomfortable in order to bring instant relief. But that instant relief can sometimes bring long-term discomfort. When I started this blog 9 weeks ago I felt very overwhelmed. I just went back to work after having my second child. I was promoted to a new position and expected to cover my old one while searching for my replacement (replacement still pending). My five year old was also ...